Unhappiness, Troubles, Crises And Struggles Are Present In life And Will Always Keep Cropping Up But By Finding The Right Remedy For It You Can Remain Unharmed By These

Our problem is that we are simply not willing to understand the design of Nature. Nature’s design is such that here, apart from himself, a human being has no control over anyone else. But without understanding this truth, we try to exert control over everything from people to situations. As a result, our sorrows and tensions keep aggravating. Instead, if we try to control ourselves then almost overnight, we would find solutions to most of our problems.

Suppose someone is insulting you, then you try to be one upon him. Considering this to be his victory, he is now bent on heaping double the humiliation on you. You get infuriated, sad and displeased. Now, this rage, sorrow and displeasureare baseless. You can safeguard yourselves by simply exerting self-control. You can surely explain to yourself that he is senseless and foolish. Why do you even need to take his words or behaviour seriously? In this way you can escape from this impending unhappiness and anger.

And this is the case with not just a couple but almost all the situations. You can exert control only on yourself and understanding this truth,you have to accordingly adjust only yourself. And it is mandatory for you to do so, because by not doing so it is only you who has to suffer unhappiness and difficulties.

-Deep Trivedi